Every International Women’s Day, thousands of “Happy IWD” messages are sent and received. Don’t get me wrong, I’m at the front of the queue when it comes to wanting to celebrate the achievements of women, past, present and future, but when it comes to international anything day/week/month, ‘happy’ is not often what I feel. While I applaud organisations for using it as a vehicle for highlighting change still needed, every year, there’s a part of me that feels frustrated because the very existence of a day is evidence that equality is still being strived for.
March 8, 2023
This complicated starting point makes me feel very privileged about the fact that, at PGB, we get to work with organisations on a daily basis that not only embrace equity, as we’re invited to do this International Women’s Day, but that go the extra mile to work and fight for everyone’s right to it.
When I think about the charitable organisations that make up our cohort of gardens for good causes this year, two things stand out to me in their visions and objectives - their calls for equal treatment and equal access.
Whether it’s Centre for Mental Health’s fight for equality in mental health, Myeloma UK’s work to have a rare cancer be given equal priority and attention, RSPCA’s vision for all animals to be treated with equal kindness and compassion, Teapot Trust’s work to give recognition and hope to those with illnesses that feel ‘invisible’, Choose Love’s campaigning for equal human rights or Talitha Arts’ therapeutic work for those who have not been treated as equals - I’m struck by the thought that if we listened to them and, as individuals, made an asserted effort to treat everything and everyone we encounter as equally as possible, we’d be making a contribution in the right direction.
Let’s imagine what it would take.
What would change if I placed as much importance on my mental health as physical health? If I chose to learn as much about myeloma as I do about breast cancer? What animals inhabit my street and how do my life choices impact them? What would it be like to have to flee my home country, not because I want to but because it’s my only hope? What would make me feel better if I was fighting a chronic illness that no one understood? What would it take, if I’d been abused or taken advantage of, for me to feel respected and safe again?
And access, access, access. I can’t emphasise enough how much this is woven through the visions, work and messaging of the organisations we work with. Giving people in hospital equal access to nature (Horatio’s Garden), making sure everyone who needs support has access to it (Samaritans), making sure kids have access to healthy school food (School Food Matters), ensuring young people have access to the fundamentals that prevent them from becoming vulnerable or homeless (Centrepoint), making sure everyone has access and ability to influence how endangered species and biodiversity are conserved in and around their communities (Fauna & Flora), helping people get better access to treatment for rare dementias (The National Brain Appeal), giving people better access to learning support and care (Aspens), making insect science about and for everyone (Royal Entomological Society), or working for everyone to have access to the joy and expression of dance (Sadler’s Wells).
Equal access is a concept that’s hard not to get behind in my view - this is not about saying that everyone should end up with the same result and the same outcome, because it’s likely they won’t, it says to me that everyone should have the opportunity and the choice.
To imagine a world free of bias, stereotypes and discrimination takes effort, but not so much that it’s out of reach. And that makes me feel hopeful - hopeful that we can all do something small to make a positive difference. Embracing something brings it closer, makes it more real, more personal, and maybe that’s what we need to do - imagine yourself as something or someone else and ask what you’d want others to do to support you or make the change you’d want… and then go and do it.